As a photographer, I hold power

As a photographer, I hold power. I decide the framing, the gaze, and what is left unseen. It’s a power that must be used with bloody precision. I’ve heard far too many stories about photographers who have abused this position.

For me, photography isn't about just snapping a few shots and sending an invoice. The best part is when both the client and I walk away from a portrait session remembering how comfortable and safe the environment felt — knowing deep down that everything went exactly as it should have.

The images illustrating this post were shot with a specific "edge" in mind. You can see a subtle ”don’t come any closer” vibe in the eyes — a look that defies the male gaze. During the shoot, we had a brilliant time; it was safe, and we were laughing constantly, even while creating serious art. That is the only way I work: the final result can and should have a hard edge, but the foundation must be one hundred per cent safe.

Then, my blunt opinion: I don’t do scantily clad or semi-nude shoots. I get asked every now and then. I’ve never done them, and I have no intention of starting. Why? Because I value things in a photograph far more than bare skin. Too much skin distracts from the elements that actually matter to me. It’s simply not my thing, so to speak.

I believe we’ve reached a point where we have to ask: is nudity always necessary for a photograph to have something "to say," or for it to take off in the jaws of the algorithm? Or have we just become accustomed to it being expected? As if being a photographer means you automatically have to take photos of models in hotel rooms without clothes? And why is it almost exclusively thin, young women who are expected to strip down? Why don't we see men or people with different body types in these types of shoots in the same proportion? A photographer whose portfolio is filled with nothing but scantily clad young women is, by default, always very suspicious. 

I deeply appreciate the modern shift in the world of boudoir photography, where instead of catering to the traditional male gaze, photos are taken for oneself — focusing more on the mood and personal agency. This transforms the shoot from external performance and objectification into genuine presence, strengthening the subject’s self-esteem and relationship with their body. 

My calling is to capture you as someone stunning, strong, and entirely yourself. Without anyone needing to get undressed to make it happen. 

So: if you’re looking for boudoir photos, I am not the photographer for you. But if you want some good boss shots (with your clothes on), I’m right here! 🧡

Finally: If you have had bad experiences in this industry—whether with a photographer, assistant, model, or anyone else — speak out. Warn others, spread the word. It might be the exact wake-up call that makes someone else think twice before acting wrongly.

Illustrating this text: @malla.altalune